As a working parent in Dubai, handing over your child’s care to someone else, even for a few hours, can be one of the hardest decisions you’ll ever make. I know, because I’ve been there. The worry isn’t just about whether your nanny will follow routines or prep healthy meals, but about whether your child is truly safe and emotionally supported in your absence.
Trust doesn’t happen overnight. But with the right systems and support in place, it’s absolutely possible to feel confident while you're away at work.
Here’s what helped me and what can help you too.
Start With Verified Nannies
If you’re still in the hiring stage, always choose verified profiles. At Find My Nanny, we verify every nanny's documents and run video interviews to give you an honest picture of who’s joining your household. You can even view recorded interviews and select someone based on communication style, experience, and personality.
Look for signs of:
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Prior experience with similar-aged children
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Comfort with routines (feeding, naps, pick-ups)
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References from Dubai-based families
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Calm, confident body language during the interview
Schedule a Trial Period First
Before you hand over full responsibilities, start with a trial week or two. This allows both you and your nanny to:
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Adjust to the schedule
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Understand boundaries
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Observe how your child responds
You can stay partially involved during this time to build comfort on both sides.
Want help structuring a trial? Read: How to Set Up a Nanny Trial Period That Works
Use Simple Daily Logs
For full-time working parents, it’s hard to get a play-by-play of how the day went. Create a simple daily log or digital tracker your nanny can fill in. This can include:
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What time your child ate
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What activities they did
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Any notable mood changes or behavior
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Naps and screen time (if applicable)
It builds transparency and keeps you involved in your child’s day without needing to micromanage.
Set Clear Boundaries & Expectations
Trust thrives in clarity. At the beginning of your arrangement:
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Be clear about house rules
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Specify screen time, diet, sleep routines
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Discuss discipline — what’s allowed and what’s not
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Outline communication style (e.g., photos, texts, updates)
Nannies appreciate structure, and it also protects you both from misunderstandings.
Install Home Cameras (If You Feel the Need)
Many Dubai families opt to install indoor cameras for peace of mind — especially in play areas and kitchens. This is a personal choice and should be discussed openly with your nanny. If you do use cameras:
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Be transparent
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Use it for reassurance, not surveillance
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Don’t rely on it as a substitute for communication
Talk to Your Child Every Day
Whether your child is verbal or not, your connection with them tells you a lot. Over time, you’ll see signs of trust or distress. Signs your child is thriving with your nanny include:
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Excited greetings in the morning
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Calm, settled behavior at handover
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Telling you stories or mimicking nanny’s phrases
If something feels off, listen to your instincts and observe more closely.
Maintain Open, Ongoing Communication
Trust isn’t built in the first week. It grows from consistent, respectful communication.
Check in regularly by:
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Having weekly 1:1 chats with your nanny
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Asking for feedback — what's working, what’s not
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Letting her feel comfortable raising concerns
A nanny who feels heard is more likely to go the extra mile — and stay long-term.
Final Word: Trust Takes Intention
As someone juggling full-time work and family in Dubai, I can tell you that finding the right nanny isn’t about luck. It’s about being proactive, setting up systems that build confidence, and choosing a platform that puts transparency first.
At Find My Nanny, our goal is to help you feel secure in your childcare decisions — whether you're hiring for the first time or replacing someone after a move. From verified video interviews to nanny visa assistance, we’re here to help you trust the process and your nanny.
