Hiring a nanny is a huge step and for many of us living in Dubai, it’s one of the most personal decisions we make as parents. But here’s the thing: finding the right nanny is just the beginning. Creating a space where she feels safe, respected, and supported? That’s what builds lasting trust and harmony in your home.
As a mom who’s worked with both live-in and live-out nannies, I’ve learned (sometimes through trial and error) that the way we treat our nanny directly impacts how she shows up for our children. A happy nanny isn’t just more motivated - she’s more connected, more patient, and more present.
If you're looking to build a positive, long-term relationship, here are some thoughtful, practical ways to make your home a place your nanny feels valued and cared for.
1. Respect Her Space and Privacy
If your nanny lives with you, it’s essential that she has a space to call her own.
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Give her a private room that is clean, well-lit, and welcoming.
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Avoid entering without knocking—this seems small but shows deep respect.
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Allow her time alone to recharge, especially during off hours or her day off.
If she’s a live-out nanny, respect her personal time by avoiding calls and messages outside of working hours unless it’s urgent.
2. Set Clear Expectations and Stick to Them
The happiest home environments are the ones where everyone knows what to expect.
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Create a simple daily routine or job scope and review it together.
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Be honest about your non-negotiables (e.g., discipline approach, food allergies, nap schedule).
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Avoid shifting duties frequently without discussion—it can feel overwhelming and unfair.
Clear boundaries lead to fewer misunderstandings and more confidence on both sides.
3. Open the Door to Communication
Your nanny should feel safe to speak up—whether it’s a concern, a question, or a small request.
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Check in daily, even if it’s just: “How was your day with the kids?”
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Create a safe space for feedback without fear of blame.
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Encourage her to share if she’s feeling tired, unwell, or overwhelmed.
You can even use a shared notebook or WhatsApp log for small updates, which is especially helpful for working parents.
4. Celebrate Your Nanny as a Human Being
Your nanny is not “just staff” - she’s someone with her own story, emotions, and needs.
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Acknowledge her birthday with a card, cake, or small gift.
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Celebrate her work anniversary with a thank-you note or treat.
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Ask about her family and background—it shows you care beyond the job.
These moments go a long way in making someone feel appreciated and seen.
5. Include Her in Family Culture (When Appropriate)
Some families like to keep things separate, and that’s perfectly fine. But even small gestures of inclusion can make a nanny feel more connected:
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Invite her to join for a family meal occasionally.
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Include her in casual celebrations (like a child’s birthday or holiday outing).
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Let your kids make drawings or notes for her—it strengthens the bond naturally.
Just remember: inclusion should always be optional and comfortable for her.
6. Invest in Her Growth
Many nannies are eager to learn new skills—but may not have access or encouragement to do so.
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Offer to sponsor a first aid or CPR course in Dubai (these benefit you too!)
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Let her join in educational activities with the children—like crafts, reading time, or baking
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Support her if she wants to improve her English or pursue long-term learning goals
At Find My Nanny, you can also look for nannies who already have strong childcare experience, training, or certifications, including those who share their video CVs.
7. Pay Fairly and On Time
This seems obvious—but it’s worth emphasizing. A fair wage, paid reliably and without delay, builds trust and reduces stress.
Not sure what to pay? Our Nanny Salary Guide for 2025 is a great place to start.
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Overtime pay if she’s working beyond agreed hours
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Annual leave, sick leave, and end-of-service benefits as per UAE law
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Clear, written agreements for both parties
The nanny you welcome into your home isn’t just an employee—she’s a partner in raising your children. And the environment you create shapes how that partnership grows.
When a nanny feels safe, respected, and truly appreciated, she brings her full heart to your home. That’s not just good for her - it’s a gift for your entire family.
If you're still in the process of finding the right nanny in the UAE, or you want to refresh your current setup, FindMyNanny.ae offers a thoughtful, family-focused approach. Browse verified profiles, view video CVs, and access support to make the hiring and sponsorship process smoother.
A happy nanny makes for a happier home. And you’re already on the right path.
