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How to Create a Safe and Happy Home Environment for Your Nanny

Nanny Interviewing & Hiring Guide · June 14, 2025
How to Create a Safe and Happy Home Environment for Your Nanny

Hiring a nanny is a huge step and for many of us living in Dubai, it’s one of the most personal decisions we make as parents. But here’s the thing: finding the right nanny is just the beginning. Creating a space where she feels safe, respected, and supported? That’s what builds lasting trust and harmony in your home.

As a mom who’s worked with both live-in and live-out nannies, I’ve learned (sometimes through trial and error) that the way we treat our nanny directly impacts how she shows up for our children. A happy nanny isn’t just more motivated - she’s more connected, more patient, and more present.

If you're looking to build a positive, long-term relationship, here are some thoughtful, practical ways to make your home a place your nanny feels valued and cared for.

1. Respect Her Space and Privacy

If your nanny lives with you, it’s essential that she has a space to call her own.

If she’s a live-out nanny, respect her personal time by avoiding calls and messages outside of working hours unless it’s urgent.

2. Set Clear Expectations and Stick to Them

The happiest home environments are the ones where everyone knows what to expect.

Clear boundaries lead to fewer misunderstandings and more confidence on both sides.

3. Open the Door to Communication

Your nanny should feel safe to speak up—whether it’s a concern, a question, or a small request.

You can even use a shared notebook or WhatsApp log for small updates, which is especially helpful for working parents.

4. Celebrate Your Nanny as a Human Being

Your nanny is not “just staff” - she’s someone with her own story, emotions, and needs.

These moments go a long way in making someone feel appreciated and seen.

5. Include Her in Family Culture (When Appropriate)

Some families like to keep things separate, and that’s perfectly fine. But even small gestures of inclusion can make a nanny feel more connected:

Just remember: inclusion should always be optional and comfortable for her.

6. Invest in Her Growth

Many nannies are eager to learn new skills—but may not have access or encouragement to do so.

At Find My Nanny, you can also look for nannies who already have strong childcare experience, training, or certifications, including those who share their video CVs.

7. Pay Fairly and On Time

This seems obvious—but it’s worth emphasizing. A fair wage, paid reliably and without delay, builds trust and reduces stress.

Not sure what to pay? Our Nanny Salary Guide for 2025 is a great place to start.

Also consider:

The nanny you welcome into your home isn’t just an employee—she’s a partner in raising your children. And the environment you create shapes how that partnership grows.

When a nanny feels safe, respected, and truly appreciated, she brings her full heart to your home. That’s not just good for her - it’s a gift for your entire family.

If you're still in the process of finding the right nanny in the UAE, or you want to refresh your current setup, FindMyNanny.ae offers a thoughtful, family-focused approach. Browse verified profiles, view video CVs, and access support to make the hiring and sponsorship process smoother.

A happy nanny makes for a happier home. And you’re already on the right path.

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About the AuthorShalni
Shalni is the heart and soul behind Find My Nanny. As a devoted mom and with over 10 years of experience in HR and education in Dubai, she knows firsthand the struggles families face in finding reliable childcare. Drawing from her own experiences, Shalni is committed to making the nanny search process simpler, faster, and easier for families and nannies alike.
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